Breaking up can be good
One of the hardest parts of breaking up is learning how to be alone again especially in a big city like London. My boyfriend, Tommy and I had been dating for just over a year. Me being an escort was not a problem for him however, when his work decided that it was time to ship him to a place far away from the capital, we both knew that this distance was something our relationship wouldn’t be able to withstand.
I had thought long and hard about trying to make it work. I had even considered making the move with him. But I’d worked so hard to make London my home and I just could not imagine leaving everything behind. My friends reminded me that I was young and that life was meant to be lived to the fullest. With this in mind, I allowed Tommy to become my past while I took on a future without him. I’d been the only one of my friends in a relationship. Not that they weren’t beautiful women because they were. Being single was a choice they made and after breaking up with Tommy, I realized why. I was able to tap into my wild side a bit more and enjoy all the wonderful things that life has to offer. I partied late, met amazing people and had more fun than imaginable. But the best part of my break up, was being able to revel in the way that men admired me. Sure, Tommy knew that I was a lady of the evening and with this, he knew that he wasn’t the only person I was intimate with. But outside of my work, I was his and only his. My life without him allowed me to enjoy the company of other men and I’ve been having the greatest time. Whether it’s just regular chitter chatter or being taken out on dates, I love being in the company of a man who only has eyes for me. I love the feeling of being free; of being able to do whatever I want when I want it.
Of course, there are times when my bed gets lonely and I miss Tommy more than words can describe, but for the majority of my time as a single woman, it’s just been all about fun. Who knows when I’ll allow myself to be tied down again? No one does. But if there is one thing that I’m sure of, it’s the fact that that won’t happen very soon.